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Parenting Online
   

A friend of mine recently shared with me some of the new activities he and his family had been enjoying on their new family computer. He amusingly told me how his 11-year old daughter and her best friend wrote a song, produced music on the computer using special software, recorded a music video using the family video camera, synced it to the already-produced music, edited it using video software, and put it on a DVD for the family, complete with a menu screen. The result was what he said to be a rather respectable music video. Being fairly computer-savvy himself and typically unafraid to chart the newest online territories, my friend admitted that he never thought he'd see the day where his daughter knew more about computers than he did.

It’s true – technology is changing rapidly and our children are learning more computer skills than we could have imagined. As parents, it is often difficult to keep up amidst our already busy lives. And when our 11-year olds know more about computers and cyberspace than we do, the task of online parenting can seem somewhat intimidating. How do we establish rules when we feel we don't completely know the territory? How do we instruct our children when we don’t know the names of the popular Web sites or terminology they are using online? How do we find the time to keep up and set appropriate ground rules with the online world changing so quickly?

No matter how sophisticated technology may become, task forces, monitoring laws, firewalls, and privacy software alone will not keep children safe online. It is important for parents to know where their children are going online, who they are communicating with, and what information they are giving out about themselves. Furthermore, it is important that law enforcement officials and lawmakers know the dangers that online activities can pose to the safety of our children so they can take the steps to not only reduce these threats, but also to support and educate others. Achieving online safety will take an intentional and cooperative effort between parents, elected officials, and law enforcement.

In an effort to educate you and your family on ways to protect your children online and to begin to build an effective partnerships in our communities, I am hosting Online Safety Forums throughout the Fourth District of Virginia. These forums are free and open to parents in the Fourth District who are interested in learning more about how to best protect their children online.

A representative from the Virginia Attorney General’s Office, local officials from the Federal Bureau of Investigations (FBI), and a representative from the Internet Crimes Against Children Taskforce will be on hand to explain to parents the threats to children online. They will provide examples of social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace, provide parents with tools to protect their children, and provide detailed information on what parents should know and look out for online.

The forum will also feature testimony of Alicia Kozakiewicz, a victim of an online predator, who will share her story and how she became an online victim. In addition, I will share what Congress is doing to prevent threats to online safety.

I invite you to join the nearly 100 parents who have already registered to attend one of our Online Safety Forums next week:

Chesterfield

WHEN:

Thursday, May 28
7:00 p.m. - 8:45 p.m.
Check-in will begin at 6:45


WHERE:

John Tyler Community College, Chester Campus
Bird Hall – B124
13101 Jefferson Davis Highway
Chester, VA 23831

 

Chesapeake

WHEN:
Wednesday, May 27
7:00 p.m. – 8:45 p.m.
Check-in will begin at 6:45 p.m.
 

WHERE:

The Lifestyle Center at the Chesapeake Regional Medical Center
800 North Battlefield Blvd
Chesapeake, Virginia 23320


For additional information or to register to attend, visit my Web site.

 

Click the photo below to download a flyer about the event to give to friend or family member.

 

 

 

 

Honoring the Members of Our Armed Forces

 

While we can never fully repay the men and women of our Armed Forces, we can honor them for their many sacrifices. We can say thank you for what they have done for freedom and what they have done for America. As a country, it is our privilege to celebrate and honor the members of our Armed Forces. We owe a tremendous debt of gratitude for those who have bravely served this nation.

This weekend on May 16, we celebrate Armed Forces Day. Armed Forces day was established to serve as a single-day celebration to honor all branches and members of the Armed Forces. This year the Armed Forces Day theme is "United in Strength."

To pay tribute to our men in women in uniform, I have cosponsored H.Res.377, which recognizes Armed Forces Day and the exemplary service of the members of the United States Armed Forces.

This weekend, if you see a member of our Armed Forces in the grocery store, at church, or in your neighborhood, I encourage you to take the time to express gratitude for their service and sacrifice to our nation.

 

SPOTLIGHT
 

Forbes Hosting Government Contracting Seminars

 

 

Congressman Forbes is hosting Government Contracting Seminars for minority-owned and women-owned businesses. If you would like information on how to contract with the federal government, use the link to register to attend.


Follow this link for information.

 


 

In the News:

Guantanamo Prisoners

 


Recently, there has been discussion over whether Guantanamo Bay prisoners should be placed in the United States. Follow the link below to find out what Congressman Forbes is doing to prevent the transfer of terrorists to Virginia.


Follow this link to find out.

 


 

Military Funding for College

 


Considering how to pay for college? Research various college funding opportunities available through the military.


Follow this link for information.

 


Other News

May 13, 2009 Forbes: Full Ship Repair Funding Vital to Readiness, FY2009 Defense Funding Falls Short

May 13, 2009 Forbes Supports Bill to Address Nearing Medicare, Social Security Insolvency 

May 6, 2009 House Armed Services Subcommittee Ranking Members Send Letter to Secretary Gates, Troubled by Pentagon Budget Gag Order

 



     
ON THE HILL
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Congressman Forbes meets with representatives of Virginians Against the OLF.

Congressman Forbes meets with students of Great Hope Baptist School.
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